In train, a conversation between two college students,
A : Man! What have you planned after studies?
B : My dream all my life is to land up in a company like Infy. Need to get settled soon man.
As a spectator in the conversation between two relatives,
He : Heard that you are planning your daughter’s marriage by this year end. How far is the groom search going on?
She : Yes! We are. The problem is, not all grooms are settled. We are looking for someone who is settled in life.
He : oh! Settled?
She : Like someone who works in companies such as infy, TCS, CTS and who has a good salary, bank balance, a car, etc.
He : oh I see! My wishes for your daughter to get a settled soon.
This time around, I asked my dear friend my alter-ego about getting settled,
Me : What does it mean to be settled and how to tackle these questions?
My Alter-ego : Boy! It’s a good question which everyone in life has different notions and opinions. It can be answered in many ways. I am giving a sample here.
Emotionally (you may lose the person’s acquaintance if this way is approached) : Do you think getting a job in Infosys or TCS or any other company means that one is settled? If so half in the world are not settled. Stop preaching wrong notions and move away! 
Philosophically (The person at the other end may think that you have gone nuts) : If I think that my life is settled, it is. If I think that I am not settled in life, then I am not settled. :-) It all depends on the individual. There’s not a benchmark or hard written rule in life which defines the word settled. A few of us have started to attach our lives to the materialistic world so much that one who has a good bank balance, big company, a own house, marriage at the right time etc makes one feel settled. For others this may not work out and it may seem ridiculous. The truth is, neither of the two is right nor wrong. Money, is both a beautiful and shabby tool to which we have attached our lives so well that it leads to the questions like getting settled and feeling happy etc; The fact is that we are all running a big marathon named life for which the end point is a big zero with few of us thinking that the way we chose to run is the correct one and the others have chosen the wrong path. People who are settled or not settled are defined on these terms. The othrs may feel it the opposite way.The irony is that when everyone is running towards a big zero in life, does it matter which path one chose? ;-)
So, got my point? Now answer me! Are you settled?
Me : Guruji! I am already running and I am not going to think about the paths. As far as I feel that I am happy, I will run.
My Alter-ego : Good my boy! How do you define happiness then?
Me : $#&^**$$ (started running)
My Alter-ego : (like Vadivelu) They call me nuts if I say this! :)
அய்யோ!அய்யோ! இத்த சொன்னா நம்மள பைத்தியம்னு சொல்றாங்க. :)
P.S. :- The person named My Alter-ego is not a reknowned pyschologist or philospher. He does not write any coumns on leading magazines. He is another nut like Mr. Karthick Raghavan and he is currently working on winning the gone case contest. :)
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