Comments on: GAP http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/ A Cultured Clown's perceptions - ஒரு நாகரீக கோமாளியின் பார்வைகள் Sun, 04 Jul 2010 05:40:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Karthick http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/comment-page-1/#comment-1841 Karthick Sun, 06 May 2007 06:27:31 +0000 http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/#comment-1841 @sai, “attitude” is just a matter of “perception” of the other - Well said :grin: @sai,
“attitude” is just a matter of “perception” of the other – Well said :grin:

]]> By: sai http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/comment-page-1/#comment-1755 sai Wed, 18 Apr 2007 06:27:37 +0000 http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/#comment-1755 a)decisions are decisions...they are always both right and wrong because the effect of any decision could be actually perceived only at a future point....one has to decide and one does , to the best of one's values and ethics. b) people like 'A' are indeed troulesome to handle,but at the same time even people as 'B' ,may seem as people 'A' to some other person who perceives himself as 'B'.....unless careful and alert all the attributes are in abundance in all of us.. C) 'attitude' is nothing static . it looks different to different individuals ...my "attitude" is just a matter of "perception" of the other.....if there could be 'gap' there could be 'gpp' tooo...'p' -perception.... :idea: too long..? a)decisions are decisions…they are always both right and wrong because the effect of any decision could be actually perceived only at a future point….one has to decide and one does , to the best of one’s values and ethics.
b) people like ‘A’ are indeed troulesome to handle,but at the same time even people as ‘B’ ,may seem as people ‘A’ to some other person who perceives himself as ‘B’…..unless careful and alert all the attributes are in abundance in all of us..
C) ‘attitude’ is nothing static . it looks different to different individuals …my “attitude” is just a matter of “perception” of the other…..if there could be ‘gap’ there could be ‘gpp’ tooo…’p’ -perception…. :idea:
too long..?

]]> By: Karthick http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/comment-page-1/#comment-1754 Karthick Wed, 18 Apr 2007 03:02:50 +0000 http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/#comment-1754 @ Ananth, Welcome back man! How's Canada? Was speaking with a mututal friend of ours and he said that people like A are everywhere. If you quit a company and join another, you will find a person like A in another form. But at the same time, it is hard to ignore them and stay with them as lot of A's are torturers. Better shut up and put up with A's or speak up and quit. :grin: Do we know this person A? Tough question to answer. :wink: And If I answer it, there is no point in the disclaimer I have put in. So, offline, we can speak about it. :mrgreen: @ Ananth,
Welcome back man! How’s Canada? Was speaking with a mututal friend of ours and he said that people like A are everywhere. If you quit a company and join another, you will find a person like A in another form. But at the same time, it is hard to ignore them and stay with them as lot of A’s are torturers. Better shut up and put up with A’s or speak up and quit. :grin:
Do we know this person A? Tough question to answer. :wink: And If I answer it, there is no point in the disclaimer I have put in. So, offline, we can speak about it. :mrgreen:

]]> By: Ananth http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/comment-page-1/#comment-1753 Ananth Tue, 17 Apr 2007 16:56:27 +0000 http://www.karthickraghavan.com/2007/04/16/gap/#comment-1753 I think I have experienced the same situation some time back. A person is said to have an attitude problem when, he/she does not want to do justice his/her responsibility, does not take any comments sportively, when others success make him/her jealous. Based on the above three points I would rather say A is in fact GAP. The best way to deal ppl like this ignore them. You climb the corporate ladder not because you help your reporting person a personal favour but only when you are willing to learn something new and try to thing new. BTW karthick, do we know this person A ? :wink: I think I have experienced the same situation some time back.
A person is said to have an attitude problem when, he/she does not want to do justice his/her responsibility, does not take any comments sportively, when others success make him/her jealous.

Based on the above three points I would rather say A is in fact GAP.

The best way to deal ppl like this ignore them.
You climb the corporate ladder not because you help your reporting person a personal favour but only when you are willing to learn something new and try to thing new.
BTW karthick, do we know this person A ? :wink:

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